RICH OR NOT.

Last night I was talking to one of my friends. I told her how i didn't want to nor was i allowed to marry a guy who was rich from his family. And now i'll explain in detail why i personally think this is true. 

I prefer being in a relationship where we can talk to each other endlessly. A lifetime long conversation. For me personally, I don't really like boys spending money buying stuffs. I really like it if we get to spend time together. Talking. Meeting. Something like that at the very least. 

Being with a rich guy, doesn't guarantee they will be rich in the future. If they achieve their richness from their own hard work, then that i would applaud but if its merely from your parents, well thats a different story. When kids think its okay to start spending money as if its their when its really their parents' hard work, that makes me kind of annoyed. 

I just really want to find someone with the same determination as me to succeed in life so that we can succeed together whilst going through all the hardship. I think its more satisfying. When we reach the top, we'll be able to appreciate it more. Going through the journey together and achieving what we both want to build a perfect life together. Now thats worth it! 

But for now, i know i myself need to succeed because the lifestyle that my parents has given me, does require a lot of sacrifice and so, the only decision i have to make is to succeed accordingly. 

But it will be my money, meaning i won't ask for the guy to buy me anything because i have my own. I don't think depending on the guy for money is right, thats why i think girls really should work so that they can do and have anything and everything they want without answering to their husbands. 

Being a girl, you have limitations but when you can get what you want on your own then, that makes you a queen! 

So don't get scared of the boundaries, just find the loop hole!