I was dealing with a few things and my lovely close friend asked why, just by a weird smiley tweet. I was touched by that small gesture.
Yeah I know what you're thinking, its so cliche' for a girl to be touched by a small gesture. Well, i can personally tell you it definitely is important to cherish your friends
So let me tell you why ...
Disclaimer, no real names are used in this post. But you know who you are.
I have had too many different but terrible ways of losing friends. And what hurts more is I'm the only one who remembers and still cherishes the friendship.
I've lost a guy friend because I defended his ex-girlfriend, (also my best friend) when he said she cheated on him. Of course I would support her. She was my total 'ride-or-die'.
But then years passed, I got in touch with the guy, the hardest thing he said was " I was your best friend too yet you still chose her over me "
Speaking of the same girl. We were the three musketeers. I had another close friend. (but we'll get to her later) For now, lets call the first girl Naomi. So, like I said, Naomi was my 'ride-or-die' kind of friend a long time ago.
Unfortunately, when we started to go to boarding school, it was super hard to keep in touch. But we did try. We would post blog posts about how we were doing and we'll read them when we would get internet connection. But we eventually lost contact because I guess she changed a lot during high school.
I couldn't blame her. I changed too. We simply didn't have anything in common and so we would just end up talking about boys or primary school. Lost of interest. I guess. But I still read her old blogs just to remember the good old days.
In reality, I just think she chose Irene (the other friend) instead of me.
What do I mean? Well you got to read Part Two okay?
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