A PERFECT CONVERSATION.

I just met up with a close friend today for my iftar & like always, i talked so much. With my hand gestures and everything. I knew i was worked up on telling her a simple story. But I was excited that i genuinely have a real conversation with someone, i enjoy talking to.

It really didn't matter what we were talking about. It was mostly everything really. And to basically have a long conversation like that, it was nice. 

Ok not in a "duh it was nice. nothing special". NO. It was nice, in the calm & the feeling of belonging. Which made me realise that there are many types of "perfect" conversations. 

Like the one i just had. A friend, who generally have no relation & suddenly comes into your life but just clicks, you know? So you tell her everything, up to your deepest hardships. But she'll understand it & doesn't judge you but relates to you in ways you thought no one would. 

But there are those when, you talk to a friend you've known for a long time. This friend, well, she already knows everything about you. But everyone changes in due time, so she just keeps learning the new things in your life & the small changes. She already knows how you'll react so she just needs to pay attention to the BIG things. She's your safety net. 

And those conversation with a friend you have feelings for. You're all giddy & nervous but when you talk to each other, it doesn't feel like its going to end. You talk & talk about things in the past. What made you, YOU. The things you learnt. The things you believe in. Your opinions. And those conversations, well, is meaningful when trying to learn about each other. Talking & just wanting to know how that persons doing. Just wanting to know what they're thinking. A conversation of a lifetime. 

There are many more types of conversations and these are my favourites because, it just actually depends on the person you're talking to. The person within the conversation can really change the setting of the company itself. 

So let's try to actually talk to each other. Not dwell on our mobile phones & messages. even when it's easier & faster. the genuine human interaction is depleting & i hope we do something about it. Because, if we stopped talking to each other, we will feel secluded & outcasted. And we all already watched 13 reasons why. So don't make that mistake.